Personal Values Table

I had some helpful friends give me some feedback on how they saw my values.  I should try to get a few more male points of view, as I only have one.  Now I need to work up the Values sketchbook.  I think I shall use some of the phrases to caption what I draw.

Contributor	Value	Positive Behaviour	Negative Behaviour	Object
Female	What you see is what you get	You never pretend	Sometimes you may appear abrupt/ brusque if one does not know you.	Your soup.  -       You can mostly see all the ingredients, but not always. -       It is always hearty and simple, yet always very rich in both look and flavor -       It takes energy and effort to make and yet you always make some -       It is a ‘straight to the point’ meal, both as a type of food and in the utilitarian way you carry it and consume it.
Male	You are genuine	You would not say one thing and do another.	You might not pull your punches in a delicate situation.	Tomato soup – you … home-made of course! Oak tree – value.
Female	Principled	Help others	Feeling responsible for others	Open hand
Female	Honesty, integrity, discipline, hard working, principled	Generosity, forthright	Dogmatic	A gloriously proletariat thermos flask!
Female	Courage – to do what you think is right Outspoken to stand up for yourself and others. Less brave people are desperate for people to speak out on their behalf as they don’t have the courage to do so and are not able to take the risk to jeopardise their position.	Achievements for yourself and others.	Outspoken – can be seen as threatening.  Vocal – the veneer that means we verbalise to cover all that goes on inside (defense mechanism).	Red hair.  Traits traditionally associated with red hair – you will laugh at some of them.